Yin or Yang?

When I strive hard to accomplish a success, I must remember to relax my grip and let the good that is breathe.  If good is allowed to breathe then it will grow, and at a faster rate than I can conceive, much less achieve by hard fisted exertion.  But what is good?  Why does it not permeate?  Is it infantile?  Does it need protection?  Can it recognize danger?  Can it survive on its own?

If we could each to our own, would we coalesce into a greater good, or would your good depend upon my good?  Would my good except or accept your good?  How would you or I know what good is?

If, while trying on new shoes, I prick my toe on someone's discarded hypodermic, should I say they are jsut doing what comes natural?  How would I relate?

Families are prescribed by relationship, usually DNA and some varying yet standard period of close proximity during which time tradition, society and culture are learned.  If I attend a gathering of like minded individuals, why are we like minded?  Shall I not have to prove myself?  Shall I not test the waters, and then contemplate whether I return, keyboard at the ready, to interact and relate further? 

A wall is no barrier if the keeper of the key is welcoming.